I agree if you want to save your marriage, then by all means don't do the work for him. If he wants a D then have him do the dirty work.

I agree with NLT, talk to him when he comes by....not about the R, but just about his job or his apartment, etc. Small talk...tell him he looks good ....we love that too \:\)

TwinDad
Me 39, W 36, M 11
W - MLC, WAW????
2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old
Start of the Long and Bumpy Road.....
On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning