He left then Cheated ---Now What???

[No Longer BH]

I'm still wondering if this could be an MLC? My husband has tended to be somewhat of a lost soul, diving into a new flavor of the month to try and find himself. About three years ago he started to work out to an extreme, became focused on his body image. Just thought it was a new flavor at the time. Then last year he got a tatoo...totally out of character, and he has been spending money like it is water. Once he moved out of the house I took over the bills and was shocked to see how bad they had gotten. Believe me, I started to protect myself at that moment. Even set up my own account to keep some money safe. I have read that many MLCers go through a depression and thought that this was the case with my husband as well. I just dont know, is it MLC or has he just turned into the self serving a**hole who cant even see the pain he is causing his son?!!? Maybe she just a new flavor. I have held onto hope for so long now, I just dont know if it is healthy anymore. Seems just when I get up from one of his blows and GAL, he hits me with a new one. Im afraid that if I keep hoping (even though I so desperately want to have hope) that it is just going to cause me more pain in the end.

Any advise?