W and I didn't have children together, so post-D I really could sever all ties if I wanted. Some days I think staying friends would be too difficult, especially in terms of her next R. Other times I think it would be really nice, and I should accept any connection with her that is possible. In your case, it really seems that while H may say he doesn't see you as W any more, that with the R you do have -- there is still something there. It sounds like you are doing awesome dealing with it.
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