Lanzo, Your last paragraph...I get the same feeling. I honestly think that my W feels almost no responsibility for the last year including the one night stand. this is the feeling i get when i speak to her...I am the one who needs to improve...she does not see her faults. Now the real question...when is the right time for us to bring up some of those shortcomings without shooting ourselves in the foot. one thing i am happy about is that she has no problems articulating areas of improvement for me...i am afraid (yes you read that correctly...afraid) to bring up certain things. oh well, patience and there is a time and a way to send your messages.
