Wow! I'm sure you are very confused. Maybe when he comes to get those things, be very positive & happy, ask him how he is doing & try to get him to talk about himself. (Men love that)!
Don't let him put the responsibilty on you, this is not your fault!! I personally don't think the D should be rushed. Mine was, he told me in Sept. he wanted D & expected it to be over by 12/31/07, H would accuse me of dragging my feet, but I'm sure the OW was rushing him. My D was finaly April 8, 2008, I'm not happy about it but really there was nothing I could do. I really tried to stop it but couldn't.
Just look at yellowrose, her H was gone for 2 years & now he is back & they are happier than before.
