Sorry to butt in. Left you a response over there...my take on the bungee effect. Should make you feel a bit better. Regarding the above...no sweat. You're allowed to vent. iamlost is pretty intuitive. Good advice!
Anyway, the above was well put. You're a good man and crying is to be considered therapy. You're ahead of the game. Again, I think if more people took responsibility and worked for change the way you (we all here) do, we just might put a huge f**ing dent in that 50% divorce rate.
Think about it. What do most LBS's do after awhile? They soon get tired, say "F--- you!" and /or go out and get another partner...within months! They often get so hurt that they don't even give the WAS a chance to come back if they want.
As you well know (by my aversion to your beloved quantum physics), I am am NOT a rocket scientist, but it stands to reason why there is such a high D rate in this country. I truly feel that the average LBS simply gives up much too soon. Okay, I'm done. You're doing great, my friend. You're my hero cuz you're getting "frisky" and I'm not!! What's your secret?! Maybe I should stop wearing her clothes?
Me: 46 Second Marriage WAW: 38 First Marriage Separated: Dec. 2007 W Filed for D: Feb. 2008 For more hope, click: http://rejoiceministries.org/
