Congratulations on helping your first feral cat. And now we know the way to our spouses heart is yummy tuna and canned mackeral.
The kayaking sounds fun. You can't help it, imp.. you are babelicious.. the guys just can't help themselves. You're wise to protect yourself though.
Only you know what works for you. I've been waffling about letting go. My therapist said if I'm unsure, the answer is no. The hardest part is thinking of the hole divorce will leave in the hearts of my children.
It's a process. Walk with pride. Embrace your strength. Be the beauty you are. You are creating your path.
