Did you read the letter? If so, what did you think of it?

It sounds to me like your plan is to have HER pursue YOU.

I'll grant you that some situations seem made for that kind of approach, but I'm not so sure that yours does.

Tell me if my take on what happened between the two of you rings true or false. Maybe my gut is reading this wrong.

Things were good at the beginning. As the years went by, and another child came along, then school and work crept in, next thing you know, Mr. and Mrs. Jonzy aren't much of a couple any more.

They get in the habit of kind of doing their own thing. Mrs. Jonzy has the kids every night while Mr. Jonzy is working. Between school and work, Jonzy doesn't get to pay the Mrs. much attention.

The spark begins to fade. There are arguments, supposedly about something tangible, but really about the distance that is slowly growing between the two of you. No one ever really acknowledges that a real problem is beginning to unfold between the two of you in terms of your marriage relationship. Without realizing it, everyone is getting your time except each other.

Mrs. Jonzy begins to wonder what happened to the dream of happily ever after. As a typical man (just like me) Jonzy figures we have a home, we have enough money, we have the kids, we get along ok, what's the problem?

Next thing you know we're at Friday's and Mrs. Jonzy has finally reached the point where she willing to say that she doesn't want what the two of you have anymore.

Is that anywhere close Jonzy?

Let me know. Honestly, if I'm way off base, that's fine. But it does affect my advice to you. Because right now, I think your plan is not really a good one.

Let me know.


Blessings,

Bill

"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."