Welcome.

Can't believe his IC told you anything about your H.

You are doing everything you can to take care of yourself and your son. You can't change his actions and you know from DB begging him to come back will make him run even further. How did you find out about OW? How long have they been together?

Something I did wrong in the past was put all my focus on the A, when really its only a symptom.

Take care.