So how YOU doin'

[Lissie]

Thanks BH.

Cat, Zumba? I never heard of it. I am so getting on it. I love that dance stuff. I hope that the drama goes away too.


Ginger, Hiya Doll. I love when you come visit. Um don't say wow about my tongue yet, but so far so good.


Yay smooooches.


Awww karate Kid,

Thank you for the wonderful email and for this part especially



"When you define your spouse by the negative impact he or she has had on your life, you make him or her bigger than life. You certainly make him or her bigger than you, because you have given him or her the ability to determine the state of your life.


When it comes to forgiving yourself for the things you have done, this step is vital. When you define yourself by the things you have done wrong, you encourage a process of decay. If you think you deserve an unhealthy life, you will live out an unhealthy life. If you think you are a failure, you will avoid the path of success. If on the other hand, you define yourself as the object of God's grace and an adopted child who is in line for God's favor, you will pursue healthy avenues of growth and development."

I was a bit angry. Forgiveness is best. Slowly but surely I am trying.

I pray for you, Moises and Mia. God has good things in store for you...

My babies. Sigh. Yeah thank you.


Hiya Chick, I haven't posted on your thread b/c i have never been so lost. I mean and it really doesn't take much.

Heya Kiki. I don't think he is jealous at all asking about me, he just wants to GET me with something. Thanks for passing by mami.


(((((((((Susie)))))))) Your post made my eyes well up with tears. 14 days after the divorce? Sorry about that sugar. It is that replaced disposable feeling that is so hard to get past some days.

I totally agree with you on this point. Just because the X shoved his relationship down the kids throats from the moment he moved out does not mean I will do the same. Plus, my time with my kids is precious to me. Just having them away from me at all is painful, I am not going to share my time with them and my attention with anyone else at this point. I don't even talk to my older girls about my social life, because I feel it is not appropriate at this point.

AMEN and EXACTLY. HUGS babes.

My Chappy. Where is the heart icon?

So you let the kids journal. You keep your journal too. Vent there, along with capturing all the facts and all the names of people who may have been involved or witnessed. In your journal, what the kids come home and say is not "hear say". At least in your journal, their concerns are concrete. You may never need those notes, but a time may come when it will be appropriate for you to share all the details ... for the good of the kids.

The tub is almost full, so just relax and soak for a while.

Thank you so much for your entire post. Especially for this part. You help me be a better parent. For that I will always be grateful.

Hiya No Hill
Hiya NO Hill
Hiya No Hill. Thanks for passing by Hot cheecks.


Enjoy the weekend peeps! Hope the weather is great for all of you.

Going with the Girls to watch Sex in the City Movie tomorrow and OFCOURSE we are going to wear our most FAB heels.

Besos.