Other than my cat business, not too much new to report, which is fine by me for the time being. I certainly don't care to live the rest of my life like this, but things could be much worse for me.

I'm going kayaking with my meetup group on the 15th of June. Cannot wait! I've been trying to get my husband to go kayaking with me since we got married... we went canoeing once, but the OW went with us. Actually, this was before their 'connection' really developed into something I consider inappropriate. I miss the good ole' days. By the way, Kerry, I believe I learned about meetup on your thread, so thank you for sharing with us. I'm really looking forward to this trip! It seems like a nice group of people. Although I did get a 'shout' from another member that kind of creeped me out. I should edit my profile to say something about being married or my husband. Maybe I'll take my photo down, too. It was an 'innocent' shout but it just seemed kind of odd to invite someone to go sailing with you when you've never met before.


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence