Hi Lisa...yes if we can make it to the 5th day then we should continue. I think one of the worst things we LBS do is bring up the R too much. R talks are not a bad thing its how frequently we have them that isn't a good thing. Also they don't serve any purpose if they are always about the same things and nothing gets resolved.
I don't like how my H talks about his decision. I think what people say on these boards though "hope for the best and expect the worst". While we shouldn't have expectations we can always have hope.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
