Hello everyone-

Well, H came home last night after work and got all dressed to go work out. He ate something and then sat watching baseball. I'd noticed that he'd moved his pillows back out to the futon from our bedroom. After eating, he got up and changed back out of his workout clothes and put some shorts on he sleeps in. He grabbed his pillows from the futon and came back into the bedroom. Again, last night, he wanted to hold me.

I emailed him a question regarding D4 early this afternoon to which he did respond. Just a few minutes ago, he called me. He asked what my plans were for the weekend. He's working on Sat., and then may play golf. However, he wanted to know if D4 and I would want to get up early on Sun. and go grocery shopping with him. He also asked if I'd be interested in getting a movie tomorrow. He suggested we pick up take out for dinner.

H left his phone at home yesterday, did not pick it up at all last night and did not get on the computer at all last night either.

What is going on with my H. Is he being nice to keep me in his sights and so he doesn't lose control? Is he at ease now that I had an honest talk with him (okay...it was me talking, not him) and thinks that all is okay for him to get close to me since I'm okay with and have agreed to the split? WHAT???

SueS


ME: 42, H: 42, D6
Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs.
Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009
Status: Working on it day by day