Its funny how they say it's not a walk in the park for them either. That this decision was necessary but difficult. Sometimes I think they just run because they don't know what else to do. They feel helpless. Some people choose to run and others choose to stay. Either way though our Rs as they once were are gone forever the only option is to change them and their dinamics. But sometimes the WAS thinks they, their spouses or the R is incapable of the change needed.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
