Normally, in the past would it be up to her to decide what do to during the course of the day?

Was it a bone of contention?

You could have a 'plan' of things to do, like Dar suggested. Just in case.

Make no mistake, being an LBS with an MLC spouse is a war, and not having a battle plan, is tantmount to being French, you will not win. : )

Even if it is just contingency plans.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet