I have been in that sitch almost every weekend, except for me it is WW going out with enabling GF's as OM is miles away. I stay with the kids and absolutely enjoy the time with them.
Just my approach. If OM was in city, think I may have a diff take.
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No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
