New Abbreviation for everyone IV

[hopeful4her]

I think that I have gotten some conflicting vibes as well, Jeff, but I believe that that is to be expected. WE ARE ALL OVER THE PLACE!

Just when we think we are handling things great, then WHAMMO, we fall down.

An issue I see is that you profess your love for your wife. Like we all do. You want it to all work out. My WW has told me similar things. We have all heard similar things. We can't believe everything we hear. You've heard the saying around here. My WW keeps telling me it is not the OM, she just doesn't want to be in a relationship right now (???) and doesn't want to have to answer to anyone. Same sh** you've heard.

BUT...

This issue I see is that you have not or may not be able to forgive your W for the affair. You have said this many times. You have to be able to forgive her. To me, there IS no hope with out it. Maybe she's picking up on that.

I don't know. I'm no expert. None of us are.

My WW knows that I love her AND forgive her.

The problem is, does she believe it. She has told me she doesn't think I can. I have made sure that she has heard me SAY it, because I do.