Chris, you sound a lot better than I did 6 weeks into this.
The D process in TX was fast too. I think I told you only 60 days after filing, my H said he was 110% sure when he filed and then withdrew on the final day. It is frustrating, but he hasn't filed so try to quit worrying about that right now. Don't bring it up, don't ask him if he is going to, don't do anything that will push him to. If he does, he does, but
Originally Posted By: naya26
I bet your H felt more at ease for a day because you didn't have any R talk.
This is so true. If you H feels like he is going to have to have a R talk everytime he sees you...then he will avoid seeing you. R talks are usually very draining for both parties. Part of the idea behind no R talks is so that your H will feel comfortable and safe around you. You will have to eventually have them if you begin to reconcile, but now is not the time.
I think going out Saturday is great. It will create some mystery and drive your H crazy!
I contacted my inlaws. I am very close to them so I think it just depends on the R you have. I don't think there is anything wrong with it. I would just say don't bash him to them, he is still thier son no matter what...but they can be a good support system for you too.
