You have children, get her a present from them. No 8 year old or 2 year old is going to 'buy' her something she wants, so she'll be smart enough to know it came from you.
Keep the card simple and not mushy or "We'll get past this" type of sentementality that isn't going to do anything for you. Stay away from the romantic cards, and the ones that talk about all the years you had together...it's like "I love you." you don't say that right now.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
