Ok, your moving out is supposed to give you some distance, perhaps some clarity. You need to quit lecturing to her, it does nothing but wake the beast within her. She knows what she is doing is wrong, right now she just doesn't care. She is just like an addict and will lie, cheat, steal to get her drug of choice.
You must have loved her once, if not why haven't you filed and gotten this over with? You are waiting for something, what is it?

Don't let her draw you into fights, that just makes her feel as if she is justified with what she is doing. Work on you right now. Get to a place where you can say you are happy with the person you are. Back off and let's see what happens.
kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory