If JA wants the extra time with the kids then maybe suggest he get them earlier...I know by the time the kids get home from school it is later in the afternoon, but even a half hour earlier would give him that time.

I by no means meant to imply that him spending the extra time with the kids was a bad thing. I do agree that he is doing most of it for show.

I really hope he stays in the boys lives as much as he is in them now. I want it to be for them, not him and his MLC ego.

WOW! 22K for taxes and vacation?? I wish I could afford to go on huge vacations like that!!