I don't mind that he spends a little extra time with the boys on Wednesdays, that is why I don't make a big deal when he shows up a little early. I figure the boys enjoy spending time with him and that is what is more important. However, when he brings them home late and abuses the visitation hours like he normally does, it gets me a little ticked.
However, I did not say anything to him because I know he was expecting me too. I believe he abuses the time to get to me, not so much to spend it with the boys, although I am sure he does love to spend extra time with them.
Bill, I do believe you are right. A lot of it is just for show. I highly doubt when this is done with that he would offer to come up every night to watch the boys like he recently offered.
