Karen Posted: she sounds a lot like my H. He wants to be single, less responsibility, able to run and bike and date whenever he wants, thinks he's in love with OW, not in love with me anymore. I do think it can be hard sometimes with that type of person. You can try one more attempt before she leaves as Puppy suggested to try to prevent her from making a huge mistake, but I understand what it's like when they're already emotionally checked out, thinks their new life will be "perfect": you know my H said stuff like he was going to have more money, more time (but same job), we'd all be happier, and all these other fantasies. It's hard to argue or compete with fantasyland!
Exactly wow, just the same, I don't know if there is anything I can do to stop her from leaving. Fantasyland always looks better until you get there and I think the only way for W to find this out is to go to fantacyland and check it out.
I have to work on myself and get my life together right now, work on reality I have so much stuff to do around the house, I need to get these projects completed, I need to schedule some time for me,
I'll see W everyday this summer and I believe we will be going to the pool as a family on Sundays, that will be wierd, I'll BBQ and make like the perfect father and husband.
The word of W leaving will be spreading like a wild fire by Sunday. Neighbor will see moving van so W's mom will know by Sunday, The only person I told, (W knows I told him and he knows a lot of the friends we have at church) will be given the green light that W leaving is public information,
We all have a long haul ahead of us good or bad it's the path we choose thats important.
M45 W41 M10 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me PA confirmed 03/08 no sex yet ?? let me hope !!! Moving Van coming Saturday May 31st
