She never gave our M a chance...... I did everything humanly possible... I held out hope until the last moment...
Boy, can I relate to this, I was talkig to a frieind who is semi new at being a LB and she feels bad since its been 3 yrs, told her I was longer holding on and why? he wasnt going to even try from the get go,,,it hurts but we grow, we become stronger, its all ok in the end
Well whoever you are,I am glad you are here!
KarenMarieS,
I know it is a difficult situation being a LBS. The thing I was very careful of was not to have any romantic entanglements until a few months after the D was final.
The e-mail in July was the last "chance" I gave her. I unlocked and opened the "door" for her.... All she needed to do was make a very small step saying she wanted to talk or e-mail....
However, I knew if she did not want to pursue anything, there would be gals wanting to date me as my close female DB friend said many times.... I am not saying that I am all that... I am just convinced there will always be demand for nice looking one woman men with solid careers/businesses....
It was a fun period flying around the country to meet some of the gals.... When I flew into meet Wifey, God had already placed it in my heart she would be my W... I was just myself and allowed Him to work....
BTW, you do know me as my other screen name......
Take Care,
NMD
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret
