Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain 38

[tpaschal]

W2S,

Plus, if he does shoot his mouth off real bad, it may be good for a restraining order and reduced visitation.

The L I saw yesterday told me if he threatens to kill me again I need to have him arrested and that will be his and his lawyer's problem. He said getting a restraining order would help my case. He seemed annoyed that I didn't do it the last time.

However, lawyers are not there to try and save the marriage eitehr. Not sure if saving the marriage is what I want either....I don't know what I want right now. I just don't want it to get too ugly.

You can't worry about this right now. I know....so easy to say, and so hard to do. I know all about that myself!

However, I know a couple in RL who went through a nasty divorce (H in MLC having affair with much younger woman, yada, yada, yada). He threatened her, she had him arrested once, they both had restraining orders out against each other.......

They divorced, he broke up with OW, had a string of short-lived affairs, she started dating, met a nice man, became engaged....

The ex-H had a serious accident. Guess who he called? Guess who went to take care of him? Guess what happened next?

Yep, you guessed it. They are back together after 5 years apart and are getting remarried.

So don't worry about anything right now except protecting yourself and the boys. There is NO WAY to know what the future holds.