Another thread. The last one locked in record time following an emotional conversation between H and myself last Friday.
H hasn't contacted me since then, and I'm getting a bit worried now- this is the 5th day, and the longest NC period we've ever had. I'm concerned in case he's not well, or not in work or something as this is really unlike him. Or maybe he's gone on holiday with the aubergine. Speculation is rife, so I thought I'd post as a way to avoid the temptation to text him and say hello.
Before anyone tlls me he might be in his cave, I re-read Mars and Venus last night, so I know he could be in there. It's just that if he's working, him not contacting me is different behaviour. Maybe he's decided that to sort things out he has to not contact me any more and focus on the purple one.
Deep sigh. Let's see what happens today. I hope I didn't blow it last week.
Well, isn't it the way that just when you think you're never going to hear anything, you get an e-mail? (see below) For some reason I feel pretty depressed about it. It made me think he spent Sunday and Monday with the aubergine and nothing's happened; like we're back to square one again.
Anyway, here it is:
Hi OD,
How are you? I hope you're having a good week at work and saying lots of outrageous things to people! I'm sure it's probably a lot more fun in your office than over here. It's been really quiet most of the week and even though today there are more people there still isn’t any interesting gossip going round.
The weekend was OK. Went round to BIL’s on Saturday and made some good progress on the speech although there is still quite a bit of work to do. In some ways it wasn’t really the best day for it cause it was the best day weather wise of the weekend. We have to go to a rehearsal on Saturday afternoon but I think we definitely want it done by the end of Saturday.
Did you manage to see that programme on channel 5 at 10 last night about these men who have sex with their cars. It was really weird and pretty disturbing. There were these 2 guys and one in particular really fancied cars and would kiss them and put his hands all over them in a really weird way. And then really shockingly he actually left his 'seed' on them as well!! It was one of the strangest programs I've seen. Now there's something shocking to tell people about!
Enjoyed the apprentice on Tuesday. I thought there was going to be more than one fired cause there are only two episodes left.
Anyway, I best get on with a bit of work.
Love H xx
I responded with a message outlining what I'd done at the weekend and telling him that we have personal challenges in our office this week so it's not too lively. Mine is to not flirt with anyone (not that I do), but CEO has gone into flirting overdrive as a result trying to see if he can get a reaction out of me.
Thoughts anyone, if any. I supppose I'll just have to carry on being patient and see where this goes.
Hang in there girl!!!!! I can see how after such an intense conversation with him last friday with the crying and everything that this email you just got would seem flat and disappointing. But the good thing is that he reached out and emailed you and made a step to reestablish the friendship connection. He might be writing things that are really non-emotional as a way of saying, hey, it's OK that we got so intense last week, let's resume as we were before [while I figure all my crap out]. That's the message I'm getting. don't let it throw you for too much of a loop. One email doesn't send you back to square one. Look at the best fit line!!!!
