I have got a mix of responses like that from friends and family alike. The way I typically answer it is, I am not giving up hope on my marriage. I appreciate your concern and at the end of the day I amy be made to look like a fool, but at least I will know I did everythgn within my means to make my marriage work.
Of course my circumstances are a lot different (I almost 40 and have two kids). You will typically find that your friends just want to see you suffer as short a time as possible. They mean well, but it is your life and decision.
The fact that you are not letting it keep you from having a good time is great....that is what DB is all about
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning