Last day of school, it is Crazy Town here!! finally got rid of, I mean, sent off, the children
H left a v.m. earlier for me to call him. I called once the kids went to recess. He just wanted to tell me he was getting the moving expense check from his boss and depositing it in the bank today in case we need it for our down payment on the house.
He also said he had to go to Wichita tonight. He said it just came up and he had to get down there tonight, but that he would stop by tomorrow night to visit us on the way back.
I said thanks for letting me know about the check, he repeated again that he was stopping by tomorrow night.....
(Wichita is 3 hrs from here, 5 1/2 hrs from Omaha, but he has to go right past K.C. to get there.)
Not much else new. No news on the financing, hope we get it soon or the offer is no good.
More later if anything amazingly wonderful happens....yeah doubt it!
I noticed about the edit button! I wonder if it is b/c people were posting phone numbers and stuff and then going back to erase them? Sucks though b/c I like to edit myself sometimes!
I do feel confident and upbeat, I am feeling pretty strong right now and I like it. I think H does too, but either way, I am sticking with this good attitude! That is just a positive bonus if he is enjoying it!
You sound awesome. Pardon me while I bask in your confidence so that some will wear off on me today--I have a MC appointment this afternoon and need all teh help I can get, * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * Okay--I should be good now! Have a nice day!
SMW
M40/H36 T16/M14 4K B2/08 S4/08 current
Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
H called again last night, asked how it went with the realtor. I only had to ask him a couple questions about our 16 pages of paperwork, especially the disclosure forms. Wasn't sure how many amps were on the circuit breaker, etc. But I did 90% of it myself with the realtor. In purchasing 5 different homes, this is the first time I was an active participant instead of just initialing wherever H did...
I was jokingly bragging about my skills, and H was jokingly rubbing in how he knew all of the answers to the questions I didn't. Anyway I mentioned that I told the realtor we would leave the pool table if we got a REALLY nice offer on the house (the pool table we bought in California for $5,000 with one of H's bonus checks).
H said, "Yeah, it would have to be a really good offer, and then we would put that money right into savings."
Me: So we could get a new pool table?
H: Eventually....
So anyway we keep having little exchanges like this. There was a joking exchange about how I am the one who can handle our touchy-feely situations and H can handle all negotiations that come our way, from now on....
Neither of us has come out and said anything specific though, so we shall see what happens once we move.......
So, not much new today. Took kids to dentist and ear doctor. They are both doing GREAT!!! Yay!
H called at 11, he was almost to KC from Wichita. We'd just left the house and were going to be out at doctors' offices and having lunch until 2:30. (Darn timing!) So he just went by the house to get some camping stuff and went on up to Omaha.
re. the camping, H asked if I thought Nathan might want to go camping and fishing this weekend? I asked and S said, "Yeah!" So did D, which I relayed to H. He laughed. I am pretty sure he just meant him and S....
He called back a few minutes later. He said he just was trying to figure out how best to spend his time this weekend, didn't think he needed to come down and work on the house until the guys installed the bathroom tile, blah blah blah...
Bottom line was he wound up saying "I think maybe we should just have some time to relax this weekend". He said we so then I basically restated what he said, including the "we". Don't know if he meant group activity or not. Said for me to come up and meet him at his mom's house Fri. night or Sat. morning.
Then he mentioned the moving money (25,000). He said, "That way you could put 14K down on the house and still have mortgage payments covered for one year, that should satisfy the financing guys". I didn't like that he said "you could". So I asked, upbeat, "What are YOU planning to do?" H said, "I haven't decided yet." I asked, "Are you thinking about what we talked about?" (living together) He said, "Yes, I am still thinking about that."
I am having another "weird" day. I woke up this morning with a strange feeling in my gut, like I used to get before a big test or other major event. I have felt all day long like "something" is going to happen today....don't know why.
Also had a dream last night that H and I were "trying" again, spending time together again. Then it started storming (in real life) and I tossed and turned for 3 hrs. and finally just got up at 5:15.
I am not at all in a "down" mood, I am actually full of bottled-up energy. I have this wild urge just to call H and say, "What are we waiting for? Let's get back together already". I WON'T! DON'T WORRY! It is just a weird mood I am in.
I wonder if it is b/c people were posting phone numbers and stuff and then going back to erase them? Sucks though b/c I like to edit myself sometimes!