There is just a passive-aggressiveness vibe I'm getting from Jeff's posts. And I KNOW how much he's struggling, and he is -- by all accounts -- a man of strength and great character, trying to hold his family together while his wife pays him the ultimate betrayal.
I've been there. It's only by God's grace and the prayers of others that you can even get thru the day, much less be there for your kids, and on your job, etc. It's not easy (and is, in fact, the hardest thing I've ever had to do).
So my post to Jeff was not a criticism, but just a simple "gut-check," and to see if any others (since it's easier to see from the outside sometimes) were picking up the same vibe.