Yes, thats true about the quick response. To answer your question about H wanting to know when I'll move back; I actually left our home last Sept. even though he "left" the relationship simply b/c I couldn't afford the house payments and he wasn't in a hurry to find his own place. I couldn't handle the fights and emotional pain so I kind of had to leave. I then had to take medical leave for my depression and due to lower disablility payments as income I couldn't afford my apartment anymore. I basically moved to my Mom's out of state until I go back to work which will be early July. I made arrangements to get a new apartment once I get back on my feet. H is just wanting to know how long I plan to be at my Moms. He's taking care of my dog right now. This is the first time we've been this far apart geographically. Hope that answers your question.
