OKAY...THIS IS WHAT I ENDED UP SENDING H AS A REPLY:... "I got your message and checked my email this morning. Good to hear from you. I miss my kids too and am glad their Dad's taking good care of them. To answer your question, I am still not sure when my move back date will be but my apartment isn't expected to be ready until at least July 1. So, about one more month here I think. Thanks for the photos! I stared at them for quite a while, missing my first love( the river). That was very sweet of you. I think in my new apartment I should hang up a photo of the skyline since I never get tired of looking at it. I definitely hear what your saying about starting over, it sounds like we're on the same page. I agree with you that we just have to see where things go. Nobody's perfect, & we all have things about ourselves we don't like so I understand where you are coming from. I'm sorry work sucks but it seems like you have a good lead on some other stuff. You'll do well at anything with sales that's for sure. Sales is a very strong point for you; a gift. I sent you an empty envelope for my book and any mail I may have, it's from a couple of days ago; I wasn't sure if I'd be able to make it over to the house June2nd since I'm still waiting for Natasha to get back with me about the car. Anyway, have a good day, I'm glad you're doing well & I'll talk to you later..." Deb ..............THATS IT! TRIED NOT TO LINGER ON THE "STARTING OVER" STUFF AND TRIED TO KEEP THE FOCUS ON HIM NOT ME OR US. COMMENTS? SUGGESTIONS? LET ME HAVE IT!