Not sure if I should post this in the SS forum or if it's just another WTF moment with W.
Sex seems to have tailed off between us after her initial out burst of energy. (Honeymoon period over ?) This morning after her shower W asked me to sit next to her on the bed, then she told me that I was killing the excitement of sex between us(WTF). So I asked her why, and she said it was because I lay in wait now every morning and every evening expecting it to happen. She said she wants it to happen as a nice surprise (with her initiating) when she's in the mood. So aside from that I should leave her alone. (!!$$)
OK in the meantime what am I supposed to do, well she want me to leave it, don't think about it, and see if it happens naturally . But men think about sex on average every 7 seconds and I don't think I'm any different especially being starved of it for very long periods. So it's difficult not to.
I think the plus point is that W has said something rather than let it fester, however she was just telling me how she felt at that moment rather than getting into a deep conversation cos just as with the R she doesn't really want to talk details. For her it will either work or it won't.
So it's leave her alone and see what happens, but I must try to avoid leaving her alone becoming ignoring her cos I know full well the consequences of that.
So it's back to the decorating, I hope that will take my mind off things.
