A friend of mine saw your thread and asked if I would post this from her to you:
Before you go, both have to promise to have no third person in the marriage. My H lied about this to them, and while it is an excellent program, my H was too infatuated w. OW for it to help us. I feel we did get closer that weekend and we even sat with our legs touching at dinner. We cried a lot b/c it is a deep program. It focuses on communication mainly. But, he was so deep in his MLC it didn't help us. He called OW and talked for an hour right after he dropped me off! My feeling is if spouse is in early MLC and unwilling to commit to the spouse, it won't be as much of a help.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
