I think in my mind I know the end is very near...I don't even think I would consider the R, even if she begged. Only time will tell.
A little early to be calling the race don't you think AD?
Infidelity crushes us, no question about it. I would never attempt to diminish the pain it brings. I'll just remind you that infidelity does not HAVE to mean the end. That's a call that YOU get to make at some point. I would suggest that it's way too soon to be deciding that right now.
The presence of the OM changes things in your approach towards her. She knows you know. It's not a guess any longer. It's my personal belief that active involvement in an affair means NO CONTACT with me. As Jack said, kids, finances, that's about it. Nothing else.
Now is the time to put all your energy on YOU and your daughter. I mean all of it. Make yourself a better man, better father, better person. Set some goals and start working on accomplishing them. Do things that you haven't done before. Keep yourself busy, even though you'd rather just sit around and mope. Have your tears, if you need them, then get out and live your life.
It's only the end if you choose to make it the end.
So sorry that you've had this come into your life.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
