Sara: OK. I really think the problem is the lack of a sex life. Yes, I'm sure you are scared, and I suspect he is too. But you say over and over that you love this man (your husband). So I think it is the distance, the physical distance that has grown between you that you can't bridge. He may have reservations too. I've known of men who were turned off by the idea that thir wives had been with someone else. And after that, they just couldn't get themselves to initiate the sex.
Go do it, have fun, its both physically and mentally health. You have to be the leader right now, I know that's crap, but H is having a hard time, he keeps thinking of you with _ _ and its hard on him, he has to start picturing you with him
Start the dance, you must lead right now, but make him understand, that you will not always be the lead, he will have to step up and show you how to dance.
Good luck, have fun, enjoy yourself, make memories
We all have a long haul ahead of us good or bad it's the path we choose thats important.
M45 W41 M10 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me PA confirmed 03/08 no sex yet ?? let me hope !!! Moving Van comming Saturday May 31st
