I have heard from so many people that once the LBS quits trying, then that is when the WAW will turn around and try to make amends. My question I guess is how many of you have heard this and what are the circumstances? Maybe we don't hear about these as much because the LBS has really moved on and won't entertain reconcillation at that point.
From what I have read, Men are more likely to try then women.
Thoughts?
Been divo almost a year (July) and about 2 weeks ago the ex sent a text asking if I would meet with him because he has changed. However, he still had his GF for at least another week after that, and blames her for their "break up" and still blames me for ours, without accepting one iota of blame himself.
Has not changed, but wants to put it all back on me and I have since moved on. Not with another man (or woman :P) but moved forward and am taking care of our D, which is my main focus (and still not his)
So I guess it is true.
However, the line I would NOT recommend a WAW S using is "I've done a lot of thinking and you just seem to be the best fit" because it sure didn't win any points with me
Good luck!
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...