"1. She hasn't decided on a D. Only S. 2. The way this is worded...doesn't it sound accusing/blaming? Saying "YOU wanted the D, not me"
Hi, Oh so that's good about the separation. And yes I think you're right it does sound harsh.
The reason I put that in there is because I remember once when I broke up with my boyfriend but really didn't want to he said that to me and it pushed me to get committed again fast.
But that is a different situation, and like you said, she's only going for separation right now which is MUCH better than someone who has already decided on a D.
So keep going dark but you are right, it's not the situation right now to say something like that.
I think if you just try and focus on sounding happy and friendly and talking about being busy and your phone shut off, etc., and be the one to get off the phone first, that is enough for now.
Perhaps you can let the dust settle and then we will have some new developments next week.
