still need to be here at times

[kat727]

Hon, tons of hugs for you. While it is sometimes nice to look at the big picture, it can be overwhelming. Instead of looking at the thinks that bother you about H, focus on the positives. Tell him how much you appreciate it when he does abc. Reinforce what you like and try to look away at least for now the things that bother you.

Everyone has hard days. It seems like most of us are having some rough patches right now. So you are not alone. Hope a ray of sunshine reaches out to you in WI.
kat