SueS- yes I believe the OW has given him reason to say Hmmmm, yet he still feels like he has to be there for her mostly because from what I heard she blamed him for her attempted suicide, and it drives me crazy, in talks that H and I have had I've almost played out the whole scenario step by step (except the attempted suicide, didn't think she was that crazy), but from what I was told she has done it before, it is an attention getter and she knew this would get her kicked out of the shelter she was staying in, which I also told H would happen thus leaving her "nowhere" else to go. and no this is what truly puzzles me,, she does not work,, NEVER has, I believe she has a brother in the area and know her mother is in NH, her ex told her he would take her back but she chooses to continue to make the lives of my H and I and our boys miserable, again,, he is letting her. I know she will use this time at his place to seduce him, play on his emotions, and put distance between H and I yet again,, I know H sees what I am saying but refuses to break that tie completely at this point,, I know H fights with her a lot, mostly about me and the boys, she wants him to herself and no one else, she also had her 8 y/o son taken from her at least temporarily when she pulled the attempted suicide, another part of her plan,, no she has NO responsibilities,, no job, no kids to worry about, nothing except sitting her a** at H's place and being attached at the hip 24/7. I don't know that I can believe H when he says I have nothing to worry about, I worry that they will still see each other even if he does come home,,I just don't know what to do.. I know I want him home,, but she has to be OUT of the picture otherwise its back to sneaking around and what you don't know doesn't hurt,, ya know?
MAZ Me 40 H 42 M 1990 Together 20 years Bomb 2/16/08 Separated 03/01/2008 2 boys 12 & 15
