I suggest you make a plan, FOLLOW IT, monitor results. If it works, keep on doing it, if it doesnt, STOP. DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT. I wouldn't use the shot gun approach...that keeps you reactive.

If you're reading Divorce Remedy, jump to the chapter on Infidelity, then the Last Resort Technique. Not all of it will apply, but some of it will.

One thought....if she's chasing this guy, it is probably going to go sour at some point. He may well break her heart. How you handle that will be very important.


sg
Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001