hopeful4her: do you think that she is only thinking separation and not divorce?
she has said so may things, seperation, to see if this is what I want to if I move out we might as well face it I'll probably divorce you.
Also said on several occasions, that she isn't ever getting married again. That she isn't cut out for marriage, having to show consideration by telling other person where she is going and stuff like that.
I know its sad but I truly believe she will regret her decision but it will be too late, I'll have moved on and will be unwilling to attempt reconciliation because of what she has done to me in the past and making me go through all this crap.
She has 1 year from June 1st - the clock is ticking
I'm going to be happy, helpful, forgiving, patient and loving. Not just to W and kids, but to everyone I know and meet. This is me, this is how I want to live my life, this may not be the best course of action to save a marriage, but its the best way to live my life. Why is the right path is always the hardest.
We all have a long haul ahead of us good or bad it's the path we choose thats important.
M45 W41 M10 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me PA confirmed 03/08 no sex yet ?? let me hope !!! Moving Van comming Saturday May 31st
