Ihope. One of the many lessons I have learned from dealing with MLC is who my friends are! And there have been some surprises, both ways. People I thought were very supportive have been less so, but many others have been real pillars.
I have very gently extricated myself from any non-authentic relationships while this has been going on. We have no choice but to fous on what is positive in our lives, and not on the negative. It is a good general rule, and an essential one if we are to survive this. It does get better, and we do get stronger. Life will never be the same again, but it could be better, hard though that is to imagine right now!
Perhaps this three time maried guy wasn't such a great guy to the women he married either?
