Sara, its 30 days here too, and bam, you're divorced. Very scary when its your next step. I think you are going about it the right way, taking your time and trying for a settlement first. You can be angry and hurt (justifiably so!) but just push that aside when talking D because it is truly a business deal. If he signs the settlement agreement, you walk away with a ton more. Do you think he would fight anything?
