Thanks hopeful. I'm sorry that you are dealing with a third party; I read in Divorce Remedy these "reasons" that our spouses give us for their MLC's and mine sure sounded like he has been unfaithful (or is being), but to date he hasn't and wouldn't admit to anything. (Don't worry I don't ask anymore). That's got to be tough. My H would say "it's not about you..." or "too little too late", just like the book said! Got me thinking but I realized that it is what it is and I am just glad he was thinking about me yesterday. I'll have to read your story too.
