Im currently reading divorce remedy. My kids are 17 my son from previous marriage. My daughter is 8 and my other son is 2. Im 38 and my wife is turning 33 in a few weeks. Well to tell you the truth, at first i was floored if you reread my post of how I found out about him. And now I just think he is in this for one thing (SEX), or maybe he is married also. I will find out sooner or later, but I already believe that they have been physical because the messages I see that she sends him. She almost acts like she is throwing herslef at him. I mean telling him thanks for calling her back, and this and that. She doesnt talk like that, and that is not her personality.