I am not totally sure that she is getting the papers but I will assume that she has since she wanted to come agreements on custody and the such. If this is the case how do I respond? I slipped up and told her that the divorce is not the answer to our problems and no matter how bad the relationship is it can be fixed, don't know if I should have said that. As I was leaving this is the first time I have seen her show any emotion as she started to cry and gave me a hug.
I called her in the evening to make sure she was doing ok and asked if this is really what she wants and her response to that was I think so. Hopefully I am sensing some doubt in her and that maybe she doesn't want to get the divorce, but I am not going to get my hopes up.
How do I act if she is pursuing the D? Do I try to convince her that it is not the right thing to do or what? Sure wish my books would get here, which I ordered a month ago!!
