Alright I am just going to come out and say what I have been thinking. Is this what I am hearing everyone say?

My husband does not really care about me. He is just Tm me and things to get a reaction from me. He says he wants to end it with the OW, but in reality that will never happen. Because my husband is a coward and shows no respect for me, I need to just go ahead and divorce him in order to protect myself. The best thing for me to do is to forget trying to be friends with him and just move on with my life and leave him out of it because he is only going to continue to string me along and take advantage of my kindness.

Is that what I hear you all saying or am I reading more into things than I should?

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08