Help, it seems my 35 year old wife is in MLC #12

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PH,

I had thought of doing exactly that. I just have to try and not say it in a confrontational way.

MMF,

If I was to say that to her my purpose would be to illustrate how she is making the wrong choices and thus hurting her kids. I doubt this is why she is saying it to me. You and Lis are right however, I should not dwell on it and simply look after my D. However, to me, not analysing something is harder than detaching.

Lissie,

Are we grumpy today?!?! I can look up some nice shoes for you if it would help Maybe a nice pair of Jimmy Choo's?

You are right, I should not analyze what she is talking about. If she wants to say something she should come out and say it. This is a huge problem with my W and at the very root of this problem. She never says what is really on her mind, she just stews in it or tells someone else and expects the problem to get solved.

I do lok out for my kids and their well being. I tell them all the time that they can call me or talk to me whenever they want. I think that part of the problem is that I see the kids in the late afternoon and we laugh and have fun and then I drop them off and go but they still want to be with me. Unfortunately, I cannot do anything about this at the moment, it is by W's actions that this is the case and she knows it. This is why I wonder why she would say something like this.