Jeff, I'm so sorry. I really don't know the answer to this question, so I'm throwing it out to everyone. Is it better to have the kids there during the move so that they can see that it is real? or should he take them out? If you take them out, I think you should make it one of their most fun days of the summer. Take them to six flags or to Union station. I bet they would love that..and it might take your mind off of things. My only worry is that your wife might try to empty you out as she takes more stuff than she says she will. In any case Jeff, we are here for you. Keep being who you are...that is a kind hearted, loving father and HUSBAND. Don't back down from evil, STAND for what is right and just. God will provide.