He's "done". Period.

[girlfromipanema]

I think you sound really good.

I'm glad that the talk wasn't overly emotional and that it was productive. Maybe the separation will be good for both of you and he can see what life without you and your girls is like.

I agree. I know this has been horrible for you to go through, but you're on the right track with your GAL activities. It gets easier to detach over time. Don't expect perfection from yourself. Just do the best you can and stay strong for your baby girls.

Wishing you well.